Tuesday, September 3, 2013

Is the GOOD Internet Etiquette DEAD ???!!



Anonymous stalkers/bullies love to be hidden by the Internet.

For many years now, I have seen and experienced how the Internet has gone from bad to worse. Our society is becoming more coarse, not nice, harsh and negative. The nice people seem to be always on the losing end with confrontations with combative opponents.


SICK People who derive satisfaction from negative attention.

It might be a mistaken posted comment that de-evolves into a hateful rant, an free updated softeware program that once updated into your puter kills your previously working computer operating system, it might be when lazy Bloggers continually post only their Blog link in your comments section only to repeatedly poach your large Blog traffic after being asked to politely stop, it might be negatively creative stalkers who seek out & steal your favorite online photos only to Photoshop them into malicious insulting photo attacks directed towards yourself, it could be when copyright pirates knowingly & continually thieve your online videos or news articles without asking or permission and re-use them with your authorship mentioned, or whatever ????!!!!??? Sometimes it's on personal Blog's comments section, sometimes it's on public forum threads, sometimes it's on social media sites, or sometimes it's in your personal email.




Social commentors say the Internet is great. I agree when it's used responsibily and users are fair. Commentators say it's 'The Wild West'. Meaning that it's dangerous and needs taming by the Internet citizens. I believe that. The trouble is that some Internet citizens don't want to play fair with others. Much like the olde schoolyard quip. Internet bullys, stalkers, trolls, malilcious posters, computer user shallow egomaniacs of the minute take full advantage of their online animinity and instant communication power of the interconnected users online.



Of course there comes to my mind all kinds of sayings and cliches` to assist the attacked online citizen's damaged feelings like: "Don't FEED the trolls", "Rudeness is a weak man's imitation of strength", "Character is what you are when no one is watching", "Some people do odd things to get even", "Profanity is the effort of a feeble mind to express itself forcefully", "Diplomacy is the art of letting someone else have your way', and many more....




**Why not a critique of the Internet troll themselves, (which regrettably finds a great separation between everyones non-combative reality and troll's own disfunctional personal bagage perceptions), thus relegating the majority of Internet innocent users to a life under pain of such unbalanced stalkers, trolls, and Internet bullies?
Two reasons: fear, and envy.
Trolls perform Houdini-like intellectual twists to dodge my questions, which are always gentle, but cut right through to their very clear — and almost programmed — envy. I ask trolls why they're obsessed with someone they never met BUT believe every smear or gissip from malicious 3rd pary others, as it would not take long to find other dishonest trolls everywhere allocated to the Internet world's envious do-nothings gossip mongers. I tell them that using they're logic and thinking, smear merchants should be laughed off the Internet for ridiculousness. And trolls should have their unwavering support and jobs in the many grocery tabloids like the 'National Tatler'. I now ask trolls who show such a knee-jerk reaction to anyone asking a simple question, one that cuts to the heart of all this nonsense: **Why do you hate people online?
They first get angry, but then quickly point out some vague fantasy story about they or their family was slighted in the long forgotten past.
To which I reply, “If this happened, tell me more specifics? So I can ocrrect the problem.” It is a none-too-subtle question, but it makes the point: Despising Internet people at random the way people are despised in much of the troll world is all about their jealousy and insecurity. And most HATE anywhere in the world has its origin in envy. In the end, my point is that trolls are “Big HATERS. But have little personal accomplishments.”
Let's make the Online experience a greater good asset. When you have been contacted to stop your bad behavior by your victim or opponent, why can't many just stop??? Why can't we all just get along ??????